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What Does a Zip Line Have to Do With Life or Staying the Course When the Going Gets Tough
Karen Schachter, contributing editor
www.dishingwithyourdaughter.com

This past weekend, I had the exciting opportunity to experience myself, and witness 11 girls and their moms, face the challenge of walking across suspended wires to a high-in-the-air landing so we could leap into the air and fly through the trees on a zip line.

Suspended by a rope and a wire. And a whole lot of courage.

Although all the safety checks were in place and our intellectual minds “knew” that we were safe and we’d make it to the other side in one piece, our emotionally-based minds were full of fears and “what ifs” and “I can’ts.”

These fearful minds of ours attempted to protect us from falling. From getting hurt. And also, from having fun. From experiencing the thrill of flying through the air. From facing our fears and pushing ourselves just beyond our comfort zone.

From staying the course so we could make it to the other side, exhilarated and accomplished and more confident than when we started.

Luckily, I was able to put my years of meditation and affirmations and visualizations to good use to support myself and the girls, as we pushed past our comfort zones and into that space of uncertainty.

And there were moments, suspended mid-air, walking careful step by careful step, across a narrow wire, where I wanted to turn back. Where my heart was beating, my legs were shaking and I wasn’t sure if I could make it.

And yet, I could not turn back.

I had no choice but to stay the course. And lucky for me — and for all the girls and moms who chose to push bravely through their fears — the thrill and the sense of accomplishment we experienced afterwards was incredible.

Real life is not much different.

Life is full of challenges. High wires and bold jumps and risks we must take in order to get to the other side. To get what we really want.

Any achievement, accomplishment, or goal that holds real meaning brings with it its own risk. Risk of failure, risk of embarrassment, risk of vulnerability or risk of success.

And it’s easy, when faced with these risks, to get off course; to give up on our dreams and our goals or to settle for staying on the ground; rather than soaring toward our biggest and brightest selves.

As parents, there is nothing we want more than to see our children embrace the courage to pursue their dreams. Yet letting them fly can be scary, and sometimes, although we want them to stay the course, we may not always know how to support them in doing so.

Here are a few tips for helping your children experience the exhilaration and excitement and inner pride that comes from staying the course in life.